Discover who you are. When you do, you will find that you are not a defined essence. You do not fit easily into labels you give yourself.
So often we go searching for a definition of ourselves—something we can point to and say, this is me. We reach for labels: mother, father, healer, artist, leader, seeker. These identifiers may feel comforting for a time, but if we cling too tightly to them, they begin to limit us.
The truth is, you are not one fixed essence that fits neatly into a box. You are a living, breathing, ever-evolving expression of Spirit. Each day you are more than you were yesterday. Each day your awareness expands and shifts, giving you new ways to experience the world and new dimensions of your own being.
Think of it like a kaleidoscope. With the slightest turn, the pieces rearrange, and an entirely new pattern reveals itself. You are that kaleidoscope—fluid, colorful, infinite in possibility.
Yet, how often do we try to freeze the image? How often do we define ourselves by what we once believed, or by what others have told us we should be?
Take a moment now. Gently bring to mind something you’ve been struggling with. Perhaps it’s a relationship, a career path, a health challenge, or even the way you view yourself. Ask: Does the paradigm I’ve been holding still fit who I am becoming?
Sometimes we outgrow the rules, stories, and beliefs that once guided us. They served us well for a time, but now they may feel too tight, like a pair of shoes that no longer fit. To keep wearing them only causes discomfort.
Give yourself permission to set down those outdated beliefs. Let yourself grow beyond the labels and definitions. You are not meant to be rigid. You are meant to expand, to discover new aspects of yourself, and to embody the unconditional love and peace that have always been within you.
When you stop trying to define yourself so narrowly, you open to the vastness of who you are. You remember that you are a soul in motion, a being of light experiencing life in countless ways.
And that discovery? It never ends.
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Journaling Practice: Shifting the Lens
Take a quiet moment with your journal and reflect on these prompts:
What labels or roles have I been holding onto that no longer feel like “me”?
Where in my life do I feel the most “boxed in” or defined too narrowly?
What belief or story am I ready to release so I can experience more peace and freedom?
Who am I becoming—and what words, images, or feelings capture that expansion?
Write without judgment. Allow your answers to flow. You may discover that you are far more than you imagined, and that who you are becoming is not confined by yesterday’s definition.
In Grace,
Gwen Peterson, Creator of Insights and Illuminations
Gwen Peterson is a metaphysical teacher, intuitive, author and spiritual Mentor to those searching for answers and guidance into spirituality, deeper meaning in their lives and perhaps building a dialogue with their Soul. Her program supports all levels of awareness of spirituality. Join her community of Insights and Illuminations.